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Alternative to BiCupid

Choose a connection that fits your intentions.

BiCupid makes room for bisexual and bicurious singles and couples to explore. If you'd like to try a personal one-on-one introduction too, meet Known. Tell us about yourself and what you're looking for. We'll get to know you and help plan the date when you're both interested. You decide whether you'd like to see where it goes.

A couple kissing beneath string lights
At first I thought this was cap and all marketing hype, but I finally got to do the call today and it was a cool XP. Now I just gotta see if they actually got somebody for me 🤣
boopbeepbloopApp Store review
Beautiful UI, such a clean user experience with great haptic feedback that makes the app come alive. Definitely recommending to friends in search of a dating app!
Ellie StrandeApp Store review
I was actually surprised at the AI aspect for matching, because my first date from Known could not have been more fun!!
Looking for love :)App Store review

How Known works

A little more personal.

Swipeless dating.

You don't browse people. You're introduced to them.

Known starts by getting to know you. Not just your profile, but how you think, what you value, and who you're drawn to.

From there, we introduce you to one person at a time. Someone chosen with intention. Someone worth meeting.

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No endless options. No small talk.

If there's mutual interest, we set the date. Time, place, everything handled. All you have to do is show up.

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It gets better over time.

After each date, Known learns. What felt right. What didn't. What surprised you.

So every introduction becomes more accurate. More natural. More you.

Less searching. More knowing.

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How is Known different?

Want a date with a plan?

We make the date happen

When you and your match are ready to meet, Known finds a time that works for both of you, picks a spot nearby, books the reservation, and sends you the details. We take care of everything so you don’t have to.

What kind of connection are you seeking?

Skip the pen-pal phase

We believe chemistry is best discovered in person, not over a screen. Known skips the endless small talk and conversations that go nowhere, so you can see if there’s a spark in person. Once you both say yes to an introduction, Known finds a time that works and plans the date. Save the real getting-to-know-you part for when you meet.

Would clearer intentions help?

Meet people looking for what you are

Known is a community of intentional daters who are ready for a real relationship. Whether you’re newly single, divorced, have been dating for a while, or simply ready to find your person - our matchmaker gets to know you and what you’re looking for so we can find the same in the people we introduce you to.

Want a date that fits your life?

Your preferences matter.

Your match, preferences, and availability help shape the date. Known looks for a place that fits, not just somewhere to meet.

Looking for a different pace?

Dating that cares about your time

Known is searching for your match every day, so you don’t have to spend hours swiping or checking for someone new. When we find someone you want to meet, we plan the date and send you the details. You just have to show up.

Want room for the whole person?

Meet someone chosen for you

There’s a lot about you that could never fit into a dating profile. At Known, we get to know all the little things that make you, you - your quirks, values, aspirations, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. We do the same with your potential matches, so we can introduce you to someone we believe you’ll have real compatibility with.

Known vs BiCupid

The detailsBiCupid
FocusDating for bisexual and bicurious singles and couples.
Personal matchmaking for people looking for a relationship.
CommunityConnections for dating, friendship and expanding your social circle.
One-on-one matchmaking, with your values and preferences guiding the introduction.
Manual swipingDiscover singles and couples in its community.
None. We find your match; you decide whether to meet.
Book the dateDate booking isn’t advertised.
We choose a time and place and handle the reservation.
CostFree download; in-app purchases.
Free matchmaking and date booking. Food and drinks are separate.
No subscriptionOne-, three- and six-month plans.
No subscription. No monthly dating bill.
App wow right now get with the times.
Mike PraterApp Store review
What I love most is how the AI talks with you like a real person. Instead of making you fill out endless questionnaires, it asks thoughtful follow up questions and creates a natural engaging conversation.
vschrittApp Store review
This is genuinely one of a kind. Went on a great date through the platform and enjoyed the entire experience
catlemon99App Store review
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Some of our favorite places

Where Known dates take place

Birba

Hayes Valley / San Francisco

Birba

Birba is an intimate wine bar on Grove Street with a covered, string-lit garden out back, making it a quieter spot to get to know your date. The wine list mixes old-world classics with natural bottles you can pull straight from the shelf.

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The Interval at Long Now

Fort Mason / San Francisco

The Interval at Long Now

The Interval provides its own conversation starters: towering bookshelves, a drawing robot and exhibits about thinking on a very long timescale. The Fort Mason space is both a café and cocktail bar, so it works whether your date calls for coffee or something stronger.

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Zuni Café

Hayes Valley / San Francisco

Zuni Café

Zuni Café has been a San Francisco institution since 1979, with big windows overlooking Market Street and a copper wood-fired oven at the back of the room. The classic order is the roast chicken for two, which takes about an hour to prepare and arrives over a warm bread salad.

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A few possibilities from our venue library. Your date’s location depends on your match, preferences, and availability.

A little more to know

Good questions.

Why has my application not been approved yet?
Great question. If you are interested in applying for Known you must first complete your application. Applications are reviewed periodically by our team and the decision timeline can range anywhere from a couple days to several weeks. Application completion does not guarantee admittance to Known and memberships can be revoked.
How long does it take to chat with the matchmaker?
A typical conversation takes around 15 minutes, but take your time. You can always pause and come back to it whenever you're ready. We suggest finding a quiet place with good internet for the best experience.
Why do I need a friend to vouch for me?
Vouching helps us review your application with a more honest lens, which often strengthens your profile. The more we know about you, the better your Introductions.
Does Known plan the first date?
Yes! Once you confirm your match and your schedules align, we select a venue based on both of your locations and make the reservation. All you have to do is show up and be yourself.
Is Known available on Android?
Yes, in the US. Download it for Android, or use known.com/join and we will send you to the right place for your phone. Outside the US, join the global waitlist.
Where is Known available?
Known is live in the Bay Area and San Diego, with plans to expand worldwide soon. If you’re outside the US, join the worldwide waitlist to be notified when we launch in your city.

Your pocket matchmaker

Less searching.
More knowing.

A conversation. An introduction. A date worth getting ready for.

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